Hello, I'm Khyla~ Your Eco Somatic Sex & Intimacy Guide
Your Nature is Pleasure.
Welcome to Nature's Intimacy
My Mission
I guide individuals to reconnect with their bodies, embrace authentic pleasure, and deepen their relationship with nature. I use somatic and ecological based practices to foster personal healing, healthier relationships, and planetary well-being.
The Heart of Nature's Intimacy begins with reconnection—helping you return to the wisdom of your body, rediscover authentic intimacy with the Earth, and embrace pleasure as a force for personal and collective healing. From this embodied place, we can see clearly how the wounds of capitalism, colonization, and environmental devastation mirror our own internal struggles. By nurturing grounded, respectful relationships with us and the land, we foster resilience, cultivate compassion, and contribute to a world where human and planetary well-being thrive in harmony.
About Khyla & Nature's Intimacy
My Story
The Eco Somatic Approach
The Eco Somatic Approach
I’m a queer, eco-sensual regenerative land steward, sex educator and culture weaver who has always found refuge in nature’s embrace. Growing up in a family impacted by addiction, mental illness, and generational trauma, my childhood felt lonely and turbulent. Yet, whenever I could escape into the Nevada mountains or tend a small patch of
I’m a queer, eco-sensual regenerative land steward, sex educator and culture weaver who has always found refuge in nature’s embrace. Growing up in a family impacted by addiction, mental illness, and generational trauma, my childhood felt lonely and turbulent. Yet, whenever I could escape into the Nevada mountains or tend a small patch of soil in my grandmother’s garden, I discovered a sense of safety and belonging that I never found at home. From an early age, I sensed that my path would differ from what mainstream society expected of me. I turned toward more holistic ways of living, eventually immersing myself in regenerative land stewardship practices like permaculture design and living in intentional communities where I became an educator and guide to young adults also looking for refuge and meaning in the natural world.
My travels took me across the world, learning from elders, traditional communities, and directly from the Earth. The deeper my connection with the land became, the more alive my senses grew. Colors sharpened, flavors deepened, and my capacity for pleasure expanded in profound and surprising ways. I saw that when I allowed the rhythms of the Earth to guide me, I healed at a core level—my relationships grew more authentic, my self-understanding more compassionate, and my sense of purpose clearer.
Recognizing that intimacy with the Earth can enrich intimacy with ourselves and others, I pursued training with Somatica® Institute to become a Somatic Sex and Intimacy coach. Now, I help others rekindle their innate bond with nature, embrace their unique pleasure pathways, and cultivate loving relationships rooted in authenticity, resilience, and a reverence for the living world.
The Eco Somatic Approach
The Eco Somatic Approach
The Eco Somatic Approach
"Eco somatic" is a term that combines an understanding of our bodies (“somatic”) with an awareness of the ecological world around us (“eco”). It recognizes that our physical sensations, emotions, and well-being are not isolated, but deeply influenced by the land, plants, animals, culture, and ecosystems we live within. In other words, eco
"Eco somatic" is a term that combines an understanding of our bodies (“somatic”) with an awareness of the ecological world around us (“eco”). It recognizes that our physical sensations, emotions, and well-being are not isolated, but deeply influenced by the land, plants, animals, culture, and ecosystems we live within. In other words, eco somatic work helps us reconnect with the Earth’s rhythms, acknowledge how our feelings and experiences mirror the state of our environment, and ultimately guides us toward living in a more balanced, respectful, and nurturing relationship with both our own bodies and the planet we call home.
In our coaching sessions, we’ll explore practices that help you reconnect with both your body and the Earth.
This includes Somatic Techniques such as:
-Guided Meditation and Visualization
-Breathwork
-Intuitive Movement/ Dancing
-Body Attunement
-Emotional Release
-Boundary Mapping
-Pleasure Mapping
and more
We’ll also engage in
Nature-Based Mindfulness Practices such as:
-Outdoor Exploration
-Observation and Pattern Recognition
-Sensory Exploration
-Elemental Meditation
-Grounding Exercises
and more
Specializations
The Eco Somatic Approach
Specializations
Specializations include:
- Trauma Empowerment and Healing
- Deshamifying Pleasure and Desire
- Kink, Fetish, and BDSM Exploration
- Alternative and Non-Conventional Relationship Structures; Non Monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship Anarchy, etc...
- Support for Sex Workers
- Primal Play & Exploration
- Understanding and transforming gender socializations
- Practices
Specializations include:
- Trauma Empowerment and Healing
- Deshamifying Pleasure and Desire
- Kink, Fetish, and BDSM Exploration
- Alternative and Non-Conventional Relationship Structures; Non Monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship Anarchy, etc...
- Support for Sex Workers
- Primal Play & Exploration
- Understanding and transforming gender socializations
- Practices of Decolonization and Cultural Reclamation
- Community Grief Tending
- Processing Rage in a Healthy Way
- Authentic Relating and Deepening Interpersonal Connections
- Performance Anxiety & Sexual Challenges
- The Art of Tease and Foreplay
- Female Hormone Regulation
- Pelvic Floor Support; Steaming, Yoga
- Herbal Medicine Making/ Support
- Restorative & Yin yoga Certification 200hr
- Holistic Health Practices
- Regenerative Land Stewardship
“The erotic is a measure between the beginnings of our sense of self and the chaos of our strongest feelings. It is an internal sense of satisfaction to which, once we have experienced it, we know we can aspire. For having experienced the fullness of this depth of feeling and recognizing its power, in honor and self-respect we can require no less of ourselves." ― Adrienne Maree Brown, Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good
Testimonials
"She Brings Presence, Ritual, and Warmth"
" Khyla brings a variety of modalities and expressions to her work. Time with her can be both playful AND deep. She has so many skills and knowledge that she is able to meet the moment with the right tools and offerings based on the flow and vibe of the experience. She brings presence, ritual, and warmth. I feel safe and able to be mysel
" Khyla brings a variety of modalities and expressions to her work. Time with her can be both playful AND deep. She has so many skills and knowledge that she is able to meet the moment with the right tools and offerings based on the flow and vibe of the experience. She brings presence, ritual, and warmth. I feel safe and able to be myself around her. I have a lot of curiosity for the topics she has knowledge about like eco-eroticism and feel excited to continue to learn from her." -Sweet Pea (They/She)
"To De Shame as an Act of Resistance"
"Khyla has a gift of holding space that inspires openness and expression. One that so easily softens protective walls and encourages full embodiment without shame. She has inspired me through her presence to be just who I am, to reveal my soft underbelly and to trust in her with that vulnerability. I am and forever will be so grateful for
"Khyla has a gift of holding space that inspires openness and expression. One that so easily softens protective walls and encourages full embodiment without shame. She has inspired me through her presence to be just who I am, to reveal my soft underbelly and to trust in her with that vulnerability. I am and forever will be so grateful for how Khyla's teachings have helped me in my journey of taking my power back. De shaming the parts of me that have been shamed, parts that are beautiful and needed to go forward into the more beautiful world that our hearts know is possible. To de shame as an act of resistance "
-Sose (They/Them)
"A Curious Creature Wielding Tools Harvested From Earth"
"A Curious Creature Wielding Tools Harvested From Earth"
" We are so grateful for Khyla! We first met Khyla at Conscious Growth Convergence leading the Eco Sensorium Exploration Workshop. She is a curious creature wielding tools harvested from Earth. The first thing that leapt out to us was the absence of judgment and her playfulness! We scheduled a virtual 1 on 1. Knowing we were going to sha
" We are so grateful for Khyla! We first met Khyla at Conscious Growth Convergence leading the Eco Sensorium Exploration Workshop. She is a curious creature wielding tools harvested from Earth. The first thing that leapt out to us was the absence of judgment and her playfulness! We scheduled a virtual 1 on 1. Knowing we were going to share childhood trauma that we are working through we were quite anxious about it. Khyla was sincere and thoughtful which put us at ease and soon we were laughing and sharing. So excited to explore more with her! Thank you, Khyla!
-Brian (They/them, We/Us)